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AI and being a mature aged Counsellor
Perhaps my reflection feels like I want to defend something. Speaking up for maturity and humanity so it doesn’t get ignored and neglected, the way our society conditions us to always want what is new, innovative, fresh and young. That stuff is invigorating and necessary. But it must co-exist with what has been and already is. We need now more than ever to value our relationships with each other, but especially with our elders, in the Counselling profession and beyond. Learning and progress means looking back sometimes to see what has been done that works and where things could be improved. Remembering that the tools we invent to assist us don’t work properly without ethical oversight, accountability and always the intention to do good, to nurture and protect, and to advance humanity. Not control it, oppress it, or as we see examples of every day, strive to destroy it. That’s a traumatic response not a healing one!
Counselling is an important part of our salvation as a species. Because every time we support one person to reflect on and make peace with their lives and themselves, it’s another seed planted to ensure caretaking and wellbeing. The challenges we face individually to maintain humanistic and existential balance within our profession, contributes to and ripples out into the world around us. Perhaps Counselling is the antidote the world needs to the destructive aspects of AI.
Are you even ready for Counselling?
The things we do day to day are necessary and some of them are choices. Some of them aren’t. But we do make conscious decisions about how we do everything. How we move through the world in a way that feels comfortable, bearable and even pleasurable. To keep us sane and well, or at least functional.
Ethical Service Promotion
I networked with potential referral points and continue to find ways to connect with other people and entities that are like minded and want to provide a secure, safe, inclusive, accessible, ethical, intersectional and diverse community that simply cares for the wellbeing of other human beings at a time when the most powerful elements of our world and communities serve themselves and their own interests first, at the expense of the most vulnerable who need it most.
I don’t have all the answers when it comes to supporting people experiencing difficulty in their lives, but that’s the point of my client lead and person centered practice. I know the answers come from within and my job is to help my clients find their own. Their own solutions, understanding, meaning and their own voice.
Toxic Positivity Vs Chronic Pessimism
The reality is that life isn’t supposed to be wonderful all the time. That is not only impossible, it’s boring and exhausting. While we hope that adversity, challenges and difficulties are manageable and short lived, we should remind ourselves that problems are a part of life and will come our way now and then. More accurately, there are always things in our life that are imperfect, uncomfortable, undesirable and sometimes even catastrophic.
